Thoughts of dJ

Have you ever noticed how easy it is to agree with everyone around you, even when something doesn’t feel quite right? Humans are social creatures by nature. We seek belonging, validation, and comfort in being part of a group. But this desire to fit in often comes with a hidden cost, the loss of independent thinking. As the saying goes, “If you want to be wrong, follow the masses.” Understanding Groupthink and Mob Mentality When large groups of people start to share the same opinions, something interesting happens,  individual reasoning begins to fade . This phenomenon is called groupthink or mob mentality . Instead of questioning ideas, people start to accept them because “everyone else believes it.” The loudest voice becomes the truth, even if it’s far from it. History is full of such moments, where societies, nations, and even intelligent individuals followed the crowd into disastrous outcomes. From financial bubbles to political movements, the pattern repeats: when the crowd m...

You know that feeling when someone asks you something and your mind goes completely blank? That panic where you want to say something , even if you're just making it up? Yeah. Me too... But I've been learning something: it's okay not to know. Actually, it might be one of the best things you can do for yourself. We're All Pretending Sometimes Let's be real. We all nodded along when we had no idea what people were talking about. We've all felt embarrassed when everyone's discussing some movie or news and we're totally lost. It's tiring, right? Always trying to keep up. Always needing an opinion about everything. But here's the thing: nobody knows everything. We're all just figuring life out. When Did "I Don't Know" Become Scary? Kids ask questions all day long. "Why is the sky blue?" "Where do stars go?" "What happens when we die?" But somewhere along the way, we learned that not knowing things was ba...